I had a fairly aggravating conversation with a friend of mine last night. My friends are nice people, but not a one of them has a clue about money. Of course, this all started because of our sweet, dear college - it usually does.
My friend’s problem was that the school had switched from paper billing to online billing, and so his parents never got the latest bill, so the school put a hold on his account (not letting him register for next quarter’s classes) until he paid the $500 he owed them.
I can see where you would be upset. After all, not being able to register for classes the second they open registration can cause major problems (I myself once got screwed over by the registration system, big time). But, in the end, it’s all his own fault.
The school sent plenty of emails and paper mailing to both us and our parents, detailing the new system. It was his responsibility to log onto the new online bill system and set up his parents’ emails so that they would get their email copies of the bills. And, this system was set up in June of 2005, so don’t ask me how he’s just finding out about it now - it’s been this way for all but his freshman year.
I can see why the school would make the switch. I personally enjoy the fact that they’re saving tons of paper with the new system, rather than sending out a paper bill to each of the 10,000+ students 6-8 times a year. But I can also see that someone saw this as an opportunity to not only save some money for the school, but also make some. How much more in late fees can they collect off the irresponsible students who never bother to set up the emails for their parents? I kinda like this, as well - let the irresponsible kids pay more, so my tuition rates don’t go up as much. It’s a win for those of us who are on top of our money!
Of course, that’s where the conversation lead. I had always had the particular feeling that this friend had no idea about his money - at least, not as far as the school was concerned. Of course, his parents pay all the bills that come, but I knew that he had to have some student loans of his own in there. And when I asked? He had no idea.
*sigh*
People, you have to PAY those when you graduate. With interest! You should be checking them, at least a few times a year, know exactly how much you owe, and watch out for scholarships you can apply for to lessen the load. It’s not that hard.
The problem is that money, especially debt, freaks out most everyone I know - and this is not limited to my age group, but it’s especially prevalent. The idea is “I won’t think about it, and I definitely won’t talk about it, and I’ll just deal with it when I graduate.” Right… that sounds fun. Post-graduation job search and move aren’t stressful enough for you? You have to add in a brand spanking new slap-in-the-face of a 5 or 6 digit debt? What is this… Xtreme Graduating(tm)?
No wait, it gets worse. So I start in on my spiel, which is basically Ramit’s 5 Steps to Getting Rich, plus some other things to just help him build credit. I would have just sent him some links, but he stubbornly refused to go near a personal finance blog (huh?), so I had to do the whole thing myself. Each step was like wrestling with porcupine, I swear.
Here are some key quips:
Friend: I take control of my finances
Stephanie: got any investments? an emergency fund?
Friend: ok….
Friend: maybe not
Friend: but if I invested in anything I’d lose all my money
Stephanie: WRONG
Friend: I don’t have the capital to start investing
Stephanie: WRONG
Friend: I got bills to pay
Stephanie: *sigh*
And later on…
Stephanie: do you have a credit card?
Stephanie: There’s the first thing you can fix
Friend: um
Friend: no
Stephanie: ok, credit cards usually = bad, right?
Friend: no credit for me
Stephanie: why?
Friend: cause I like to actually pay for things
Of course, I went on to explain that there are good ways to use a credit card, and that you really need to, at our age, to start a credit history and boost your score. Still, this “stubborn ignorance” and defensive need to find excuses for not looking after your financial future bewilders me. We like to spend money just as much, if not more, than any other age group. Why wouldn’t we want to find ways to maximize our money?
Some days, I just don’t get it.
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