We humans do not like to give up luxuries that we’ve become accustomed to. When a personal finance blogger suggests that someone in financial peril cut the cable or satellite, the person in trouble often balks at the idea. Who can live without cable in this day and age?
Strangely enough, I can. I didn’t think it was possible. Even as a kid, when we didn’t have cable, my life revolved around the glowing box in the living room. I grew up on “Seasame Street” and T.G.I.F. (back when it was still good). And when I was 8, we moved to a house that was less in the middle-of-nowhere, and got cable. Suddenly my life revolved around all the wonderful shows that Nickelodeon could offer me (oh “Salute Your Shorts,” how I miss you).
By the time we moved back to the middle-of-nowhere house five years later, we were all addicted. We still couldn’t get cable out there, so we mounted a satellite dish on the roof and received the joy of 150 channels – minus the local stuff.
That’s where I think this whole thing began. You get used to saying “I don’t get the local stations.” You get used to not having it anymore. Eventually our satellite brought us local channels too, but we tended to forget they were there, after not having them for so long.
When I went off to college, my dorm offered free basic cable, or you could upgrade to digital cable for a monthly fee. I was puzzled by all of the people I saw grabbing up the digital boxes. What more were they paying for, exactly? I was entirely happy with my free Sci-Fi channel and Comedy Central. And when did they think they were going to have time to watch these excessive channels they were signing up for?
I myself only managed to watch the images on the Magical Moving Picture Box when friends came over to hang out. And usually we dragged my DVD player into the lounge, instead of watching whatever scheduled shows the TV had to offer.
When I moved home this past December, my mother proclaimed that she was going to cancel the satellite to help offset the cost of me living there. I thought about it for a moment – canceling the satellite meant no live television at all. Our feeble “rabbit ear” antenna couldn’t even pick up the local stations for us. I would be cut off, left only with my DVD player for comfort.
But it didn’t really bother me. And the fact is, you can live without TV better today than you could just a few years ago, and here’s why:
- All of the four major networks (ABC, NBC, CBS, and FOX) offer several of their shows on their website. Despite my lack of TV, I’m entirely on the ball with LOST, Heroes and Grey’s Anatomy.
- TV on DVD has become a major force. It’s how I’ve seen the first seasons of LOST and Grey’s, and the entire series of Angel, Buffy, Firefly and Coupling. And you don’t necessarily have to buy the DVDs new: you could buy them used on eBay, rent them from Netflix, or do what I do: borrow them from your friends!
- There’s more free entertainment on the internet than you could possibly absorb in a lifetime. Yes, not everything on YouTube is worth watching, but then there’s always something like Barats and Bereta that totally is (I recommend the Mother’s Day video to start with).
In about a week, cable will be installed in our new house. And I don’t care.
Read the dramatic conclusion in “How To Live Without Television – Part II”
Nick in Iraq says
When you are without TV for a while, you really don’t miss it! I haven’t watched TV in months. It’s easy to forget it doesn’t exist. When you do have it, it’s easy to waste so much time in front of it. Like you say, DVDs are the way to go if you really like a series.
Pat says
My mom lives in a tiny town in the middle of nowhere and refuses to get cable (it’s actually a matter of principle for her). For the first week or so after coming home from college every summer, I was certain that I was going to die of sheer boredom. And then I discovered all of the things you do when you’re *not* watching TV – like going for a walk or run, exploring a new part of town, reading a good book or magazine, and hanging out with friends. When I was growing up, I couldn’t wait to have my own place so I could get cable. Once I got my apartment, though, it didn’t seem like such a necessity (though my friends insist that it is). As you said, almost anything you’d want to watch is online anyway, so why bother?
Ellen says
Amen! I occasionally miss my TV since I moved to a TV-less place in February, but only for events like the Oscars and the Golden Globes — and friends who are watching are always happy to have me over for popcorn and star-wardrobe criticism. Although I will admit to checking Televisionwithoutpity.com in the mornings after Major Reality TV Events so I can talk to coworkers. Love that site and love not wasting ages watching MTV like I used to do.
Peter Mottola says
It’s true. One of the last things I did before graduating college was to sell my TV. I highly doubt I’ll ever buy another. As was already mentioned, a DVD player (in my case in the form of a computer) is more than enough. Remember that every time you move you get 4 new weeks of free trials for both Netflix and Blockbuster (note: I have not done this. But in theory you could. Or at the very least you can trick the people you live with into trying it out so you can choose movies vicariously through them).
And indeed the Internets are a repository of content. Not just YouTube, but there’s plenty of good podcasts out there, and some neat stuff will be coming down the Web 2.0 pipeline in the near future to be sure.
As a general principle I would exhort folks to eschew mindless entertainments as much as they can. I’ve started taking a walk every day and I’ve gotta say, it’s pretty awesome. Reading is something I’ve finally gotten back into doing and I can’t begin to describe how great it is to be back in bookland. Americans do tend to consume way too much television, especially considering that what’s on it just gets dumber and dumber.
“If an American lives with something for 10 days it’s a necessity.” Don’t be that guy. Turn of the TV.
Jim says
I have a satellite dish and come January I’ll get rid of the service because of the two year contract. There isn’t much of a point to having several hundred channels and only watching 10 of them. I get the local channels through my dish though. My wife and I don’t watch much TV and if we miss shows, they are always available to watch on the Internet. We’re in an information shift where the Internet and radio are starting to dominate what TV, cable, and newspapers used to do. Growing up I probably wasted a lot of time watching TV and now I don’t have time to waste watching TV. There are only a few shows I’m hooked to: Survivor, Amazing Race, Apprentice, and Deadliest Catch. If it wasn’t so expensive to cancel the contract I would just do it now rather than wait. Once I get rid of it though, I might sell some TVs I have because we will only need one.
Tyler Ingram says
I have lived in my new place for like a few weeks now and I have yet to watch TV. I normally don’t watch it and don’t find it a great source of entertainment.
Phillip says
Posted this on part 2, but also posting here…
Free TV and movies:
http://www.tv-links.co.uk
Sandra Bradley says
I have done both. My life has revolved around the TV schedule and I’ve totally sworn off of TV. Right now the TV is on almost all the time, but I rarely watch anything. I think it’s just habit and background noise. I think it would be great for people to at least lessen the amount of time that they watch TV, even if they don’t totally quit watching it.
Danette Miller says
Its hard but not impossible. Like everything, moderation is the key. I’ve reached a point that I’ve reduced my TV time mainly because I realized how angry I was becoming over idiotic/formulaic shows and infuriating commercials.
Kathy says
My fondest memories with my two boys happened when we had no TV. One place we lived we just couldn’t get it. Another time lightning ruined our TV. Both times have special memories of our TVless time together.
Adrian says
I had a hard time learning to live without TV, but now that I am used to it, I wouldn’t start watching again! It’s really nice not to have all that noise and those violent images interrupting my dinner.
Raph King says
TV is a very antisocial idiot box. just recall the days you had to go without tv for a day or two and the family would get together in the evening telling stories or catching on with each others lives. While i cant live without tv, i also appreciate the fact that social life with my family would be highly enhanced if were to lose it.. but may be life would become boring after all…ill never know until i get the idiot away from the box
John Removal says
I think that it is great that you are getting by without the tv. I agree that there is much more to life than getting caught up in the world of television. Especially these days with all the reality shows on. I’d rather pick up a magazine or read a book!
trogg says
I agree with a lot of what’s being said here, what is reality TV about? I can’t think of anything less real:>. My TV broke down six months back and it’s been great getting back out on the mountain bike again. I must admit to missing some of the live sport TV though, so I checked out how to watch tv online.
This is what I use. I know I had to pay for it but it does it for me.
Luke says
Rather than stopping watching TV, I just started doing more things and suddenly there was no time for tv.
Highly recommended! Choose rich experiences over passive entertainment.
Yelida says
I´ve never been such a big fan of T.V. ever since I got out of high school which was 7 years ago, I´ve always had a T.V. tho I hardly ever watched it other than to try to find movies and be annoyed everytime they already started or are finishing… Agh, other than that I only watched channels like National Geographic or Animal Planet since I´ve no patience for MTV reality “shows” … My TV broke down in December last year and I´ve never fixed it, just today I actually gave it away since it´s just taking up space in my room. The only place I ever watch T.V. and not for more than 15 minutes is at the lounge room at work because if i sit there T.V is always on with something LOL. So I can perfectly live without T.V.! I´ve found a way to download all the movies and T.V. shows I like and I want to see online and watch them without commercial interruption, now I need to find a way to find videos from other channels I like as well such as NatGeo, etc. Yeah, Life without T.V. is just fine.
Taia says
I’m only 10 and i I broke my TV a few weeks ago,And it was torturing for a few days.But then i realized..There’s nothing even good on tv.If you want to get entertainment use youtube,want News?go read the newspaper.Miss shows,or movies? go rent the DVD,or read popular fanfics.Forget channel surfing,go do ACTUAL surfing!